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What's The PolyFi Site About?

Have you ever been in love with more than one person at the same time or are you already in a polyamorous relationship? Do you live in regional Australia and feel isolated because of your lifestyle choices? Then you have arrived at the right place, this site is devoted to people such as yourselves.

  • Curious about polyfidelity or polyamory? The PolyFi website is here to help you...
  • If you're not sure what it is and isn't, we help clear that up here.
  • If you're interested in the joys and benefits, our forums give you chances to learn or share.
  • If you're dealing with jealousy, we offer great suggestions and resources here.
  • If you want to socialise with or meet other polys, no matter where you live in Australia, we can point you to local groups, and our weekly Text Chats & Skype ® Fests are great.
  • If you've got children, and are considering “coming out of the closet” with them, we've got resources and fellow parents to help you.
  • If there just aren't enough hours in the day for all the love and responsibilities in your life, we can help with time management.
  • And if there are other topics you're interested in, we've either got them covered elsewhere or you can ask us to add them.

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What's Inside?

Free love grows up

  Free love might sound like a euphemism for group sex, but to Boston's polyamory…

Getting Started

So you found our community on the edge of the web and are wondering how…

How does a person start (or continue) a poly relationship?

  First, there are no rules. Nobody owns the copyright on polyamory. You get to…

II: Essential things to consider while reading this series

Thank you for reading this series, and for your patience in waiting a whole month…

III: Some important concepts common to most types of intimate relationships

When it comes to “relationships”, the ethically non-monogamous lifestyles usually are very similar to monogamous…

Influence of the Science Fiction Writings of Robert A. Heinlein on Polyamory

originally published by Serolynne, March 21, 2005 The concept behind polyamory, or the lifestyle of…

IV: Relationship resources – especially for Australians

It's hard enough for monogamous couples to be “successful” in the long term, and they…

Just what exactly is polyamory, anyway?

  Sometimes, in the course of human events, one needs to go back and clarify…

Polyamory - Definitions

  Polyamory is a hybrid word: poly is Greek for many and amor is Latin…

Polyamory: The Case for Ethical Non-Monogamy

  Suggested publications: Marie Claire, Cosmopolitan, Cleo Angie* was introduced to Ray* by a co-worker.…

Scope of the Term "Polyamory"

  No single written definition of "polyamory" has universal acceptance. It is generally agreed that…

Swinging or Polyamory?

  Swinging is not polyamory, and the difference is often a sore spot when poly…

The Map of Non-Monogamy

I've been told, many times, that the word "polyamory" is not really necessary, as it's…

Topic 1: A Preview Of This Series

“Polyfidelity 101 – An Introduction” is a series of 10 one-page articles about alternative lifestyles. …

V: An overview of the most popular alternative lifestyles

Before we continue:  An addendum to Topic 4.  I was unaware of the podcasts offered…

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There are several settings on the site to protect your privacy, you can control what…